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Keep Your Back — Back

  • Writer: Mika Hadar
    Mika Hadar
  • 5 days ago
  • 2 min read

Keep Your Back — Back

An invitation to presence

A confusion worth naming


I was teaching a group of experienced Alexander Technique teachers last week when something surprised me.

I offered the familiar AT instruction: Keep your back back.

And I watched the room shift — into a wave of quiet confusion.

One teacher asked: “Do you mean my lower back? Or my upper back? What does ‘back back’ actually mean?”

Another said simply: “I feel out of balance.”

I realised that this phrase — so common in our teaching — is understood very differently by different people.

Some hear it as a position. Some as a correction. Some as something that conflicts with their sense of alignment.

And none of them are wrong.

The instruction itself is incomplete.

What “back back” actually is

Keep your back back is not a position!

It’s not about flattening the lower back or extending the upper back. It’s not something to hold or achieve.

It is an invitation to presence.

As we know, Alexander placed great importance on the relationship between head, neck, and back — what he called Primary Control. When this relationship is free, the whole system organises itself.

But with established habits of living in front of us, something often gets lost.

 

We tend to live in the front of ourselves.

The front is where we:

  • connect

  • speak

  • listen

  • reach into the world

The front is where intention lives.

The back is different.

The back is where support lives. It is where we can sense ourselves as a whole — in 360° awareness. It is where we are held, not just where we act.

So keep your back back becomes:

An invitation to remember that you are also back.

That presence matters as much as intention.

What changes when we include the back

When we bring attention to the back of the body — the back of the neck, spine, ribs, and legs — something shifts.

We begin to feel supported.

Not by effort, but by the ground, by gravity, by the structure itself.

We become less caught in what we think we should be doing,and more able to sense what is actually happening.

This becomes especially clear in hands-on work.

If we are only present in our hands — in the front — our touch tends to become directive. It carries our intention into the student.

But when we include our own back while working, something changes.

The hands become less imposing. More curious.

The contact becomes a presence.

There is a kind of balance:

  • back presence

  • front attention

meeting between teacher and student.


A closing thought

Keep your back back doesn’t need correcting.

It needs clarifying.

And that clarification is not technical — it is experiential.

It is the recognition that:

  • presence is not the same as intention

  • the back is not a position, but a quality of awareness

  • we are not only reaching into the world — we are also being supported by it

The invitation stands.

Keep your back back.Be present there.

And notice what becomes possiblewhen you are supported,as well as reaching.

 


 
 
 

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